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Reaching the end of year three, and looking into year four of this - I'm sick of the phrase 'journey', so I'm opting for 'excursion' - provides a really timely opportunity to consider what has passed and take the opportunity to reflect. If I could say definitively, the specifics of what I've learned in three years - and not the day-to-day management 'stuff' - but the real qualities of survival and personal development... what would they be?
First and foremost, being successful - e.g. achieving goals in any context of your professional life - requires commitment and an unerring sense of bounce-back-ability. Ostensibly, I'm sure many people would expect that I've never experienced a failure or disappointment... however I can say wholeheartedly that I have. It may not have concerned a magnum opus coming crashing down around my ears, but I have experienced my fair share of un-won tenders [despite very good odds], the high praise and enthusiasm of a great prospect [which fell by the wayside] and the general regret of discovering that something wasn't 'as you thought'.
In the very early days of any venture or enterprise - these disappointments / outcomes become the 'norm' - you battle daily with them. In a lot of ways, you are no different than a musician chasing the all-important record deal - and can expect a lot of 'nos' until someone realises your talent. Resilience is key.
Another nugget of great import: if it's broke, do fix it. I write regularly about the vanity complex many businesses suffer when they are so in love with what they do, they can't see that nobody wants to buy what they're offering. Even the best-researched, well-thought-out and developed service or product can experience road-bumps [and of course, we're all subject to changing times and demands] - keep your eyes wide open, remain innovative and fresh.
Don't dwell on things that haven't come to pass; if it's not for you... is probably the hardest accepted reality [and not always confined to business]. Having the ability to let go of the things that haven't come your way is a skill to learn, and the sooner you do, the better. In the fast-pace of business - it becomes easier to see why things happen the way they do, and in every instance - it's for the best, though it might not seem like that at the time.
Finally, I think the significance of connection - with others - both virtually and in person, is critical. I can honestly say I have learned more in three years of this excursion than a degree and several years in various managerial roles could ever have taught me - much of this learning came not just from experience, but from the generosity of spirit and kindness of colleagues.






